Why does this conversation have to last so long…
There is one definite difference between men and women and it that is that we do not like long drawn out conversations while they choose to diarrhea from their mouths in just about every thing that we talk about. This is true from the simplest conversations like what should I wear tonight to what did you mean when you said…
My girlfriends can truly talk to me for more than a fucking hour about what they are wearing. I mean does that conversation really have to last so long? The answer is simple, wear something that shows off your tits and preferably no bra. That is for the other guys out trying to get foreplay going for their jerk session later on or for those guys that are out with their girlfriends as well and need a bone as well.
Then there is the serious topic which is usually how you fucked up. Why do we have to talk about this for so long? I mean do we really have to analyze everything that happened? Do we really have to spend three hours talking about the same thing? There is a reason why movies are only two hours long. Attention span man. People can’t do the same thing for more than a couple of hours (other than drinking) and that is for something that they enjoy.
Advice: I have none. There is no way to win in this game.
There are some things that we have to concede to. One could simply cut off the conversation and tell them to fuck off, but all that is going to get you is another conversation at a later time that will have to discuss not only the first topic which we have forgotten about but they have imprinted on their pupils like a teleprompter. But we have to talk about why we cut the last conversation off. No winning here. Just gotta try to not fuck up.
I think a lot of girls don’t realize that they’re not authority figures over their boyfriends. (To be fair, a lot of guys don’t realize the girl isn’t an authority figure either.) Once both people get this into their heads, there’s a lot less useless bickering/complaining/whatever the hell women do.
Women: File your complaint. We’ll take it under advisement. If you don’t like what we do in response, leave.
@BL1Y Couldn’t agree with you more. So boys, at least let the chic think she is in control…
@Casual Dater
Going to disagree. I don’t think it’s a good idea to let her think she’s in control. A girl who thinks she’s the boss of you will get more upset when she doesn’t get her way, and will try to punish you for not doing what she wants. A girl who sees the relationship as more of a joint venture is going to be more respectful of you, and probably happier with the relationship (less frustration, disappointment, arguments, etc).
Boys boys boys….joint venture it is…but if u do mess up (and we all do) fess up, apologize and then distract